The fast paced modern life is leaving very little time for intimacy and couples are rarely finding time for each other to talk let alone making love. This is leading to many problems within the marriage and the basic need of sex is being compromised by many couples in the race to earn more and more money and progress in their career.
This article is an attempt to rekindle the lost flame of passion in your love life and the seven tips mentioned below should help you bring back the sizzle in your love life.
a) You have to mentally make up your mind and resolve that you will be the ultimate lover for your partner and will give your partner the best of your attention. Doing this is half the battle won as it is the mind that dictates a lot of what we do and how we approach things in life.
b) The right atmosphere and ambience is very critical for any intimate relationship and you can create this by constantly encouraging your partner and having nice things to say about him or her. Everybody needs praise and you will do well to follow this advice. There is nothing like excess praise and this is one thing that will only improve matters.
c) Surprise your partner by sending regular messages of love. You can do this by keeping a personal note in the bag or in the pocket. You can also show your affection by helping your partner with work at the kitchen or laundry. It is also very important to regularly express your love verbally and this will ensure that your love making gets the required spark.
d) If your children are a hindrance to your love making efforts, engage a baby sitter who will be with them leaving you and your partner free to indulge and enjoy without any interruption. Even spending time talking to each other regularly will pave the way for sexual intimacy. You tend to drift apart only when there is total break down of communication.
e) It is never too late or inopportune to take your partner for a date and you can do this religiously every week. Going to a new place each week will definitely bring back the romance in your life.
f) It is recommended to discuss sex and aspects of lovemaking you would like to pursue after each date prior to the date or when you are in the midst of it. It sets up an anticipation and enthusiasm among both the partners for the session ahead.
g) Make sure that you are not disturbed by any electronic device like the computer, television, phone or even the doorbell till you are through with your lovemaking session. Make the session romantic and uplifting by using different aromatic oils for massage and in the bath.
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